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Example Six Pictures You Need To Avoid At All Costs Pictures of you with your shirt off or flexing your muscles are an absolute no, no. If you have a good body then that can work to your advantage when you meet her or when you‘re clothes start to come off, but on the Internet it will actually turn a woman off even if you have a great body. Most of the time these pictures come off like you are trying to hard to impress, show off or act tough and they also reveal too much to a woman without her having earned the right to see you with your shirt off. Women have wild imaginations and having your shirt off takes away all the mystery and intrigue about what might lie under your shirt and you want her wondering about that whether you have a great body or an out of shape body. I guarantee you, if a woman likes your personality in her mind she will think you are better looking than you really are. It is also important for you to realize the difference of how women get turned on as compared to how men get turned on. Most men tend to be more visual thus we can be turned on by looking at a woman or a picture of a woman. While women can sometimes get turned on by the sight of a man, it is more the characteristics, personality traits and feelings she associates with that man, than being purely visually turned. Another picture of you, that you want to make sure is not in your profile is the one where you have some cheesy or stalker like look on your face that you think is funny or you put up there to make fun of yourself and get women to laugh. This conveys all the wrong things about you, including that you are trying too hard to be funny, the way you look isn‘t attractive and can weird women out. More importantly it conveys you have low self esteem and have to use self depreciating humor to get people to give you attention. The next photo you should never include in your profile is the dancing monkey or the clown photograph where you are doing something immature or childish while everyone laughs at you. This includes pictures of you at parties, drunk dancing, like a fish out of water with nobody within 6 feet of you. Any picture of you taken using a web cam or even worse taking a picture of yourself in the mirror is definitely a bad idea as it conveys you have no life and she will probably think you spend all day eating pizza and watching porn on the Internet in your parent‘s basement. Another picture that people have a hard time letting go of and I did too because I used to have in my profile is the picture of some beautiful location you have been to while traveling that you are not actually in. Most guys use these pictures to convey personality, lifestyle and that they travel and while I myself love doing landscape photography I strong advise against posting pictures without you in them. It can convey that you were at the location alone, you do not like having pictures taken of yourself which conveys a low self image and more importantly is there is no proof that you were actually there. Even worse than that, is a picture of your car or even worse I have seen people with pictures of the outside of their house which is tragic especially if you are not in the pictures. Sadly for the people with these pictures women pretty much associate men using these pictures to have very little substance and that they have to use their material possessions too try and attract women. These do not interest most women at all because when they first meet a guy they are more interested in his personality than his career or material possessions and it is just an added bonus for a woman if she finds he has a nice house or a great job later on. You also want to make sure not to include pictures of you that look contrived or fabricated. Examples of this might be when you are at a bar or a party and you walk up to a heap of attractive women without having talked to them and ask them to take a picture with you. Don‘t laugh, guys actually do this and I‘m sure they have some quiet time in front of the computer alone looking at these pictures later in the night. Women are quiet clued on to this and can pick up whether a picture is posed or not and if you really had that many beautiful girls around you. If you were hanging out with celebrities then I‘m sure they would be thinking why is this guy trying to meet girls on the Internet. I tend to think pictures with your idols, role models and mentors are fantastic. As are non-posed pictures with celebrities and in particular, local celebrities, which will increase your apparent social status. This is not necessary but will add another dimension to your profile and will convey something very powerful about you, which is that you are a motivated, go getter person who has goals, dreams and aspirations. It is also very important that you do not include any pictures of you that cover your eyes, women like to see into your eyes as they are the "window to your soul" and convey what type of guy you are. They can communicate whether you are sincere, trustworthy, loving, passionate and more. Pictures of you wearing sunglasses and ski goggles may look extremely cool but create an impression of being shading or hiding behind something, which doesn't work online. You need to take these pictures off your profile immediately. Now lets talk about the ultimate picture you want to make sure never appears in your profile. It is the one with you and your ex girlfriend, especially if you are using it because you have no other pictures of you with women. This is the worst picture and gives the biggest red flag to women who are looking at your profile.
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