Example 3

Arranging Dates

There are multiple ways you can arrange dates. I find it is best to ask a woman if she prefers talking to a guy on the phone, communicating by text or whether she prefers email. If that is not an appropriate question to ask I suggest you figure out the best way to get her responding to you pretty quickly. Figure out what is working and keep doing it, communicating via these messages plays a big part in your success. Every woman has an optimal communication strategy to keep in touch with men in between meetings. I suggest you learn to crack the code on a particular woman's strategy. As a general rule I find calling women usually works best if you have developed some rapport already with them or you have met them online. In that case it is imperative you call them first before meeting them. The best time to call women is between 5pm-6pm or between 7:30pm-9:30pm Sunday through Thursday.

The key to arranging dates successful is to always get a woman laughing or make fun of her about something. Always have an interesting story or something to say to grab her attention and get her interacting with you the way you want right away. Always be busy and never drop your plans to go hang out with a new woman. It sends all the wrong messages and she'll know she can control you which takes away all the challenge for her.

Women are attracted to guys that are a challenge, that's why they like famous and unattainable guys because they see them as the ultimate challenge. When you go to schedule a date always mention two times you are free and two times you are busy. That way if she is busy one of the times you are free she is most likely to be free the other time. It also conveys you are a busy guy and have plenty of other things you could be doing. Never fish for a time to go on a date and always have what you are planning to do with her planned out before you get on the phone or ask her out.

For a lot of guys asking a woman out is a big deal, it is one of those critical steps like approaching a new women, kissing her or taking her home where a man has to put his balls on the line and face rejection. I recommend you really work on yourself and make yourself feel comfortable in these types of situations. The best way I have found to do that is simply experience.

You are always in charge at these critical moments and that is why it is important to take control of these situations. If you plan for them in advance, you already know the right step to take in these situations.

I have already talked about how women do not have the time to wait for a guy to court her anymore because of the demands of our busy society. Now let's talk about your dating strategy. If you are really looking to meet that one special woman I want you to ask yourself can you really afford to just see one woman at a time?

What if it doesn't work out? Well then you have to start back at square one again, so I recommend you schedule multiple dates per week when you are single and continue doing so until you find a woman that you want to see exclusively. The way to know if this is a woman you want to see exclusively is if she stands out over all the other women you are dating or have dated... And if you lose interest in seeing other women and start spending your time with her. Now that being said if you are dating more than one woman at a time it is important to be upfront with the women you are seeing. You want to make sure you tell them that you aren't looking to rush into anything.

 
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