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Example 2 Now the first important distinction you want to make before you go out to meet the woman is how you present yourself. You want to make yourself look presentable, that means you need to wear clean clothes, have a shower, wash yourself twice, use deodorant or some cologne, make sure you are well groomed and most importantly dress to portray the image you have portrayed online. I'd like to suggest that the way you dress fits one of the following criteria: smart casual, sporty, corporate, out there, dandy or bad boy. If your profile conveys that you are a bad boy, then don‘t wear a conservative suit, if you are a dentist, or you work at subway dress accordingly to fit your identity and what you feel comfortable in providing it is in fashion and fits into the criteria above. Dress categories to avoid are nerdy star trek style or computer gear, the Oracle or IBM you own is very unlikely to attract a woman. Clothes that are out dated or were in fashion in the 80‘s, generic clothes that every other guy is wearing, clothes they do not fit your body are also clothes that you want to avoid wearing on a date. If you want to get some ideas on how to dress, then next time you are out and notice a really attractive woman with a guy, notice how he dresses and how he presents himself. Here are two strategies I have used effectively when meeting women from online for the first time. The first is to have a few male or female friends already there hanging out at the venue with me at the bar or the coffee shop before she arrives. That way if she turns out to be a little strange you still are with your friends there and you can laugh about it afterwards and swap dating war stories. The key is you do not want to be attached to your friends as that will make her very uncomfortable very quickly and not give you an adequate opportunity to escalate to the physical. You want them to be there to say good things about you, give you social proof and also to show her you are a normal guy who has real friends. This also catches the woman a bit of guard as she is not expecting you to want friends there and makes her have to really try and impress you to win you over. Here are two strategies I have used effectively when meeting women from online for the first time. The first is to have a few male or female friends already there hanging out at the venue with me at the bar or the coffee shop before she arrives. That way if she turns out to be a little strange you still are with your friends there and you can laugh about it afterwards and swap dating war stories. The key is you do not want to be attached to your friends as that will make her very uncomfortable very quickly and not give you an adequate opportunity to escalate to the physical. You want them to be there to say good things about you, give you social proof and also to show her you are a normal guy who has real friends. This also catches the woman a bit of guard as she is not expecting you to want friends there and makes her have to really try and impress you to win you over.
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